Entry #31: Middle school parent involvement
needs to begin in the early years


Alamo Navajo Community School, New Mexico -- It's graduation time!! For middle school teachers, this is often when we watch former students acquire their high school diploma, knowing we helped lay a foundation years earlier. Any accomplishments in education should be seen as a culmination of effort with support and guidance from lots of people.

Our family had the privilege of watching 11 seniors graduate from the Alamo Navajo Community School here in remote New Mexico. This was quite a different ceremony than those I had previously watched or been a part of. When is the last time you attended a graduation ceremony in which English was the second language? In fact, the keynote speaker, a Navajo from the larger reservation, commented on the uniqueness of this community.

For example, all graduates have gained proficiency in 2 languages, Navajo and English. This even includes the one "Anglo" senior. In addition, these Native students have a clearer sense of their roots and heritage than most Americans due to the mobility of the larger society. How many youth can say they live in the same place as their parents, grandparents and great grandparents? Still, there have been many obstacles, some of which are just beginning to be tackled.

As I mentioned last week, parent involvement in the secondary school is weak, as are the parenting skills. In the past, students were sent to boarding schools for many years, and parental influence was reduced dramatically. The relationship between schools and families was marked by mistrust and misunderstanding.

The plan now is to build a foundation of trust and positive relationships starting at the earliest level. That's why I visited with Colleen Alivado, the director of the early childhood center which is housed in a brand new building on the reservation next to the K-12 school. Through the F.A.C.E. program (Family and Child Education), Head Start, Early Intervention and Early Head Start programs, they offer parents and children from 0-5 years all the opportunities found anywhere in the country. The vision is to build relationships with families while meeting the needs of children. Ten parents spend their day at the center meeting together to share difficulties, gain skills and then practice them on-site with their children.

Another 70 parents receive home visits each week from one of four trained staff members. During these 90-minute visits, the parents are taught curriculum and given projects and materials to use with their children.

While this does not directly relate to middle school, these parents are breaking down the walls that have existed for generations between home and school. Even now, the children that have moved on to the elementary grades have parents that are actually volunteering in their classrooms and monitoring homework at home. As the years go by and more and more parents experience this positive relationship, the involvement will improve throughout all grade levels.

Last week, I met a parent of a first and fifth grader who was involved in the early childhood center here and now proudly stated that she will continue to be active clear up to graduation.

It seems to me that while we are expecting increased involvement at the upper levels, we also need to look at the practices in the early years. The better this foundation, the more benefits we will reap at the middle level and above.

So, while we are attending the culmination events at graduation time, let's not overlook the work that needs to be done at the other end. Hopefully, it can all add up to some great graduation ceremonies.

Til next week, Darrell


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