Jay Wamsted on Limiting Our Work as Teachers

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As I interview Jay Wamsted – 8th grade math teacher and champion of teaching sanity – on a cell phone call, he apologizes profusely about the leaf blowers along his walking route after school. “They’re everywhere,” he says.

There are several metaphors to be had here – about speaking up against constant noise, perhaps, or about heading for home when school ends above almost all else.

Jay championed these ideas in a viral Twitter thread this past September on why, and how, teachers should leave their school work solely in the building. His wide-ranging suggestions include protecting the personal lives of teachers, abolishing homework, and recognizing that a “calling” is ripe for systemic exploitation.

Jay Wamsted

Jay views our current moment in teaching as a perfect storm of pandemic fallout, growing intolerance of the huge fiscal inequities of American society, and baseline overburdening of the caring professions.

It’s a predicament that requires a strong corrective: “We must let things lie on the table, unfinished. That is the only way to change the system,” he writes in the thread.

“How is this like ‘quiet quitting’?” I ask.

Jay balks a bit at this choice of terms, and understandably so, as he himself is nothing like a quitter: a runner, Ph.D., teacher for almost two decades, and father of four.

“I wouldn’t call it quitting. But there is an element of protest in this,” he says. “I had a principal tell all of us once that if we were not staying for hours after school, and coming in on Saturdays, we shouldn’t even be teachers. But the system will take and take and take. The system does not care if you stay on Saturdays.”

Nor does its administrators survive their own stated work ethic, he notes wryly. “And how fast does admin turn over these days, after all? My fourth principal in four years isn’t even going to know I came in on Saturdays.”



The response to his thread has been predictably mixed, but not in the ways you might think.

“Maybe… 50% positive, 50% negative?” Jay muses. “With 50% of that negative 50% being, you know, troll-like. I want to engage with the teacher-driven negative 50%, the teachers who are saying, ‘No no no, that’s not what we should do,’ rather than other people saying ‘You have terrific health insurance, shut up, you’re just lazy.’”

It’s the teacher-driven resistance to Jay’s ideas where he spends the most time in the thread, debunking the myths we tell ourselves about owing the kids, self-sacrifice, and the imperative of service.

“The caring professions, women’s work in particular, capitalize on our caring. You might say that professionals always put their work first like this, but the fact is that professionals DON’T always do this. And if they DO, they’re being compensated for their time with adequate pay,” he notes.


“I have 17 years of experience and a Ph.D. I still make five figures. Find me another ‘professional’ with similar qualifications who makes so little. I’m not whining about pay, but don’t compare my work to the median salary of an architect in New Mexico. I’m not having that conversation,” he laughs. “The care and feeding of people is demonstrably underpaid in this country.”

Jay’s voice also represents those of us teachers (full transparency: I’m 50 years old) who are not young and childless. “The model of burning out 23-year olds is a model, but it’s a bad one. I’m not throwing the 23-year olds under the bus – they are wonderful colleagues,” he says. “But with a marriage and a family, I simply don’t have huge swaths of time to devote to teaching in the same way.”

Longevity in teaching also has benefits we teachers joke about, but those benefits are demonstrably true: “I didn’t learn to be a good teacher until 5 or 6 years in, honestly,” Jay says.



He returns to the metaphor of “quiet quitting” now, something that’s obviously been rumbling around in his thoughts since we began discussing it. “No, It’s not quiet quitting. It’s… quiet running a marathon. Do you finish a marathon if you cramp out at mile three?”

“The ultimate question is: what is the best for our kids? What do they deserve? Don’t they deserve a teacher with 20 years of experience and a good home life too? I want to be here for them this year, and the next, and the next. Our kids need veterans, not martyrs.”

Jay’s reached home now; I can hear him opening his front door and greeting his children. We thank each other and say goodbye. It’s time to stop talking about school.

Dina Strasser

Dina Strasser is a veteran educator of 20 years, 14 of those as a middle school ELA/ELL teacher. For six years she worked in many capacities at the non-profit group EL Education. Now she's back in the classroom, and this year she’ll be teaching middle and high school English language learners. Her early experiments with dirt have progressed into a lifelong love of the outdoors.

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