5 Strategies to Teach SEL Online or In Person

A MiddleWeb Blog

Educators in the United States and many other parts of the world are uncertain about what teaching and learning will look like in the coming school year.

Whether we’ll be teaching in-person or virtually, or some of both, it’s essential that we address our students’ social needs.

Part of our role as educators is to teach students to honor their feelings and respond to them rather than to be controlled by them or act impulsively.

This is particularly true for language learners. Over the “break” we need to consider and plan how we can best create a welcoming environment for our ELs, whether they come into our care through physical classroom doors or by joining us in virtual learning spaces.

Research tells us that when language learners feel welcomed, their affective filter lowers, which creates the cognitive space for them to engage academically (Krashen & Terrell, 1983). Let’s look at how we can best achieve that goal with ELs and all our students.

5 Low-Prep SEL Strategies

A core tenet of social-emotional learning (SEL) is how we teach and what we teach are as important as how students feel. David Bott, Associate Director of the Institute of Positive Education, joined me on a podcast interview to share five low-prep, high-yield strategies to teach students skills they need to regulate their emotions and their responses.

Bott and his teammates have taken research from positive psychology, turned it into principles, and identified practical strategies for teachers to implement in a classroom context.

►Bott suggests that teachers and students are two humans in the same space first. The teacher-to-student relationship is second. Therefore, Bott encourages us to facilitate human-to-human interactions. Creating this connection means spending the first few minutes of the lesson connecting with our students.

Connecting might mean meeting students at the door and having informal conversations not necessarily related to school. For example, you could use their names in a positive way or ask how their new pet is doing, how they are enjoying their anime drawing club, how the college application is going, or how their drama performance was.

Integrating SEL will take up instruction time, but that can mean minutes, not hours. Also allow for unteaching to occur frequently. Though this can seem like a waste of time, it is a great use of our time because by connecting, we lower students’ flight, fight, or freeze responses. Establishing this rapport sets students up to focus on learning because they feel safe, heard, connected to the class and not apprehensive of the teacher.

►Establishing a trusting relationship with students is foundational to SEL work. Students are less likely to learn from us when they do not trust us as the adult or the authority figure in the classroom. If language learners do not trust us, they withdraw from engaging as they do not know how you will receive their participation. If they are laughed at by their peers for their grammar, they might not trust that you will address the disrespectful behavior, so they choose not to participate as a safety mechanism.

Bott suggests that there are three components of trust: competence, honesty, and benevolence. Bott has also translated what these three components mean for a student-teacher relationship:

Competence

Students will judge our competence based on such things as how prepared we are for the class, how well we know our content, how effective we are at managing student behaviors, and how we facilitate learning experiences.

Honesty

Keeping our word to students means showing up regardless of the circumstances that we find ourselves in. Honesty can also mean providing authentic feedback that is not sugar-coated, yet not hurtful either.

Benevolence

Students need to know that we genuinely care about them – that we think about their well-being, their needs, and their wants as students. Benevolent teachers act in the best interests of their students, demonstrating that they are not showing up only for a salary.

Students do not automatically trust us. To be trusted, we must work to earn students’ belief and confidence. Remember that every interaction is either a withdrawal or a deposit in a relationship. Work to have more deposits than withdrawals.

►One easy way to integrate SEL into your class is by being playful with students. When we play with students, they sense our vulnerability. Play requires us to be open. Students see how we set aside our power, authority, and job titles to interact joyfully with them. Play can quickly earn students’ trust and create a human-to-human connection rather than a teacher-to-student connection. Also, being playful with students means engaging in informal opportunities to make each other smile and to make their life a little more joyful in that moment.

If your class periods are longer than an hour, I encourage you to facilitate prep-free, prop-free brain breaks. In a brain break, students playfully engage with you and other students to create a sense of community and to give them a break from intensive studying. The time spent engaging in a brain break is time well invested as students who are physically active are more able to focus.

►Like a content-specific topic, SEL has its own vocabulary, sentences, and discourse (how sentences are connected together). Bott suggests that the language of humanity is the language of emotions. Therefore, he encourages us to teach the language of well-being and emotional literacy. We can build the language around emotions by telling, sharing, and reading stories aloud.

Through each story we identify the language associated with emotional intelligence, such as acknowledge, perspectives, reaction, response, compassion, empathy, and strengths, to name a few.

Click to learn more

Throughout the year, you can bring these stories, the characters, their emotions, and their responses back when a teaching opportunity around emotional intelligence arises. As we “speak human” through the stories we tell, those stories become the tools to teach emotional intelligence skills we want all students to possess.

The more students have the language of emotions, the more they can communicate their own emotions, their own needs, their own desires. Additionally, the more vocabulary students have around language, the more they can connect, support, and empathize with each other.

The best part about this strategy is that families can get involved as well. They can recommend a story from their culture to be shared in class that can teach emotional intelligence. Teachers can also encourage families to tell stories from their culture that teach an emotional intelligence concept such as empathy, compassion, or understanding another person’s perspective.

►A teacher’s life can be the content of an SEL lesson. Students not only learn about emotional intelligence from stories, but they also learn from watching the behaviors of those around them. Students learn by copying their parents, their friends, their relatives, and even strangers. We can teach students SEL skills by demonstrating them in the way we act with fellow educators, other students, bus drivers, and of course, students’ families.

One way I do this is by telling students stories of how I deal with challenges, obstacles, and setbacks. I might tell them about a disagreement my partner and I had and how we listened to each other, tried to understand each other’s perspectives, and shared how we maintain an affirming relationship despite the disagreement. For some reason, they seem to be attentive during these stories where they can peer into my life. With my school-appropriate real-life stories, I show students how I am human. I make mistakes, and I’ve learned from them.

Lastly, as language specialists, we get the distinct privilege of being human through our co-teaching. We can show them explicitly how we take turns, rely on each other’s strengths, support each other, process our disagreements in a healthy way. We not only get to co-teach on behalf of language learners, we get to use co-teaching to give life to the emotional intelligence skills we want students to learn. Sometimes, if we want students to learn something, we can practice it ourselves first.

Using SEL Strategies Online

If your students have access to technology, you can transfer these strategies online. For example, you might welcome students to your virtual meeting by asking them to rate how they are feeling today before going into the content part of the lesson. You can also allow students to turn on filters that can transform a face into a fruit, a cowboy, or an animal. You can even turn on the filter on your side and turn your face into that of a unicorn.

Here’s another example: you can garner trust when they notice that you already prepared a welcome video for them to watch with their partners in their breakout groups. They can tell you have already thought about all of these details, and they trust you enough to go along with the lesson.

In the welcome video, you could explain that you found a better way to do virtual school because you listened to a podcast where the host has an expert on flipped instruction speak about using more synchronous collaboration during virtual schooling. You now have an opening to emphasize that you made a conscious choice to make things better even though you have never facilitated breakout groups virtually before.

This example demonstrates how you can layer in all the strategies that Bott suggests into your virtual instruction. There is no need to do something separate. You can simply find opportunities to teach emotional intelligence that are already inherent in your virtual instruction.

SEL Begins with Our Teaching Mindset

If I want to reach into the future, I must first touch the present. I have to intentionally integrate students’ need to develop emotional intelligence into the curriculum so they become adults who can more wisely regulate their emotions.

That’s what I appreciate so much about Bott’s suggestions. Social-emotional learning is not a program we add on; it’s a mindset we teach with. I have to teach content with an eye for opportunities to develop students’ emotional intelligence. I not only teach students to understand why Romeo was so upset with his family but also teach them to consider how ineffective he was in dealing with his feelings and what that led to.

I cannot delegate or simply hope that students will develop highly-effective social-emotional skills. I have to commit to integrate this skill-building into my lesson, model it as I work with colleagues, and embody it with each interaction I have with students. After all, emotional intelligence is what they will need in the future long after they have forgotten how to find the area of a right triangle.

Krashen, S.D. & Terrell, T.D. (1983). The natural approach: Language acquisition in the classroom. Prentice Hall Europe.

Tan Huynh

Tan Huynh (@TanELLclassroom) is a career teacher specializing in language acquisition. Tan has taught students from 5th to 12th grade in public schools, private boarding schools, and charter schools. Internationally, Tan has taught in schools in China, Laos, and Vietnam. He shares teaching strategies on his blog, Empowering ELLs, and has provided PD training in China, Thailand, Singapore, Italy, and Canada. Tan’s goal is to support all teachers who are committed to empowering English learners whether it be in a tweet, a blog post, a book, a training, a course, or over coffee.

1 Response

  1. Cecilia Enriquez Rivas says:

    This article was of great interest to me! Thank you so much!

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.